The Fierce Conversations Confrontation Model enriches relationships while effectively addressing attitudinal, behavioral or performance issues with a colleague, a team or a challenging customer.
CONFRONTATION CONVERSATIONS
DIVE INTO CONTENT
- Identify current confrontation conversations
- Discuss bad habits around confrontation
- Explore the Fierce context around confrontation
CONFRONTATION PROCESS
- Introduce and explore The Confrontation Model
- Learn the 60 Second Opening Statement
- Small group exercise:
- Have each participant draft their own 60 Second Opening Statement using a real life issue
- Ask each participant to practice reading their 60 Second Opening Statement with a partner (in complete confidentiality)
- Debrief as a group
- Identify and discuss common reactions to confrontation
- Explore connection between The 7 Principles and the interaction phase of confrontation
- Discuss where to go from here-resolving the conversation and final steps of confrontation conversations
- Discuss working towards a resolution
- Explore Confrontation “on-the-fly”
APPLICATION
- identify other confrontation conversations that need to take place-large or small
- Schedule them and hold them
- Be mindful of your triggers before the conversation
- Remember to be an explorer, not a conquerer